A Subscription Box For The Wanderluster!


After hours of my life have been spent aimlessly watching make up tutorials, cute animal videos, and countless food challenges, Youtube led me to the infamous SnackCrate.

SnackCrate subscriptions come in three different tiers. Subscribers can choose from the mini box, original, or premium crate. The mini box is $14 and a half pound crate, the original is $26 and a one pound crate, and the premium is $49 and a three pound crate. I went with the mini box not knowing if I would like everything and didn't want to get too much. Here's what was mailed right to my door: a new "snacking adventure" that I was super psyched to dig into.


For your first box Snackcrate allows you to choose what country you'd like to get your snacks from. I chose Israel as my first box since its a high "must visit" country on my bucketlist and travel plans.

I love that they include a brochure with facts about the country and what kind of snacks you are eating! Also if you didn't know, snacks are MADE FRESH and shipped out to you immediately to ensure the best quality! My top 3 favorites from this box were Bamba Peanut Snacks, Bissli Pizza Wheat Snacks, and RRX Cookies.


If you're looking for a creative way to try new foods I highly suggest subscribing for a month or two. It can get pricey when it adds up, but perhaps it's something you can ask for as a gift! Who doesn't like receiving something in the mail nowadays? Go ahead and treat yourself, subscribe to SnackCrate!

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SIMMI SHOES REVIEW - US Buyer



I love shoes as much as the next girl, but I'll admit I am picky when it comes to where I buy them from. I’ve purchased shoes in the past from reputable retailers in the mall that practically fall apart after a few wears, and similarly, I’ve ordered shoes online that are so badly made that they leave your feet with aches and pains you didn't know were possible. In other words, shoe shopping is serious business in my eyes. When I am paying my hard earned money for a good I expect what is advertised to me as a consumer. Once again the photo of instagram had caught my eye with the latestest trending blinged out slides! Simmi Shoes is an online retailer based out of the UK with all the latest styles and fashions, affordable price tags (most pairs are under $40) and most importantly, great quality. With an array of boots, sandals, wedges and heels, you certainly are not left wanting on the simmi site!


I was lucky enough to snag the Sophia Black Diamante Sliders! They arrived within two weeks of ordering and were beautys right out of the box! The site does say they are "true to size" however I would like more room in them and feel as though they do run a little small or snug. Considering the low price tag (£20 = $25.51) they really are a steal! Perfect paired with a simple black dress, jumpsuit, athletic wear, or even faux leather and everyone including you would think they were worth a pretty penny, but would could blame you! These gorgeous slides come in 6 more colors making the decision to finally buy a pair rather difficult!


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DIY $25 "Diva" Ring Light!



DIY Diva Ring Light for under $25! This DIY is great for MUAs and Youtubers. You can make your own ring light instead of spending $200+ on a Diva or similiar ring light. All supplies came from Walmart and took less than an hour to make!

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Cardboard - From the wreath box.
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5+ Helpful Parenting Printables


From parenting charts to kids activities, you cant go wrong with a printable from Thirty Handmade Days!

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Your Guide to Vegan and Cruelty-Free Summer Skin Care


Some personal-care product companies are still living in the Dark Ages: They cruelly pump their substances into animals’ stomachs; rub them onto animals’ raw, shaved skin; squirt them into their eyes; or force animals to inhale them. It’s time for these companies to throw in the animal testing towel!
Finding animal-friendly skin-care products is a breeze, thanks to the thousands of companies riding the cruelty-free wave. The following brands are perfect for your summer beauty regimen:


Sunscreen


Sunless Tanner


After-Sun Moisturizer


Deodorant


Shaving/Hair Removal


Insect Repellent


As always, PETA's cruelty-free company database is available for you to look up any company that you’re curious about.

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Head Coverings: Can I Wear One?


Khloe Kardashian set off an internet firestorm when she posted an Instagram photo of herself wearing a niqab, or veil that covers the face. Fierce accusations of “gross” and “cultural appropriation” ensued. As a mother to multiracial children and a blended family I decided to dig a little deeper into the culture surrounding head coverings.


In some places, such headcoverings are banned entirely. France prohibits women from wearing the niqab in public, arguing people's faces should not be obscured. Cities across the EU have followed suit. Critics say such bans inhibit freedom of religion and expression, not to mention further misconceptions and distrust around the wearers.

The Headwrap Expo in Dearborn, Michigan, aims to bust stereotypes around this tradition, as well as share new styles, fabrics and scarf-wrapping techniques. The expo “was established to build love and understanding between peoples of the world by tapping into our shared love of fashion,” explained organizer and creator Zarinah El-Amin Naeem. She encourages people to “Speak with someone different from yourself, learn from others. Ask who are they and why they wear the scarf.”

For many people around the world, a head covering is a personal choice, whether spiritual, cultural, practical or fashionable. Head covering uses or meaning can vary depending on the location and/or religion of those who wear it. Head coverings may be worn for a variety of purposes, such as protection of the head or hair from rain, wind, dirt, cold, warmth, for sanitation, for fashion, recognition or social distinction; with religious significance, to hide baldness, out of modesty, or other forms of social convention. Head coverings are now mainly worn for practical, cultural or religious reasons. Until the latter 20th century, head coverings were commonly worn by women in many parts of the Southwestern Asia, Europe, North Africa, and the Americas, as well as some other parts of the world. In recent decades, head coverings, like hats, have fallen out of favor in Western culture. They are still, though, common in many rural areas of Eastern Europe as well as many areas of the Middle East.

Headscarves, headwrapping and other cloth head coverings can be worn big, piling the hair on the head; with the hair tied close to the head but wrapped to be large, like a crown; some women might tie a simple scarf around their head to keep their hair out of their face. People have to cover their hair if they work in a kitchen — and some simply want to look fashionable when they do it.

Many cultures wear head coverings, beyond the Muslim niqab, including Native Americans, Japanese, Turks, Eastern Europeans, Bangladeshis, Filipinos, Jews, Muslims and Sikhs as well as Africans. “White” is a phenotype, not a culture. White people belong to many cultures, including cultures in which head coverings are worn. Head coverings are universal & don’t belong to any culture. People all over the world have been wrapping their heads in cloth for thousands of years. "Black" is also a phenotype, not a culture. Black people belong to many cultures. Just being black doesn’t automatically give a person exclusive ownership of certain hairstyles, clothing, music or food. Being black doesn’t necessarily make a person part of the culture that originally developed these things.

El-Amin Naeem says that in the workshops she holds on headwrapping, Caucasian American women are often apprehensive about wearing a head covering, out of fear for cultural misappropriation. They don’t want to be seen like they are mimicking a culture, even though they want to wrap their hair. “But when you look at traditional clothing in Eastern Europe, they have something on their head, as well; ornate flowers, lace scarves… It is a global phenomena."


Comparison of a "tichel" head covering worn by a white woman & a "low bun" head covering worn by a black woman.








At the expo, Nabintou Doumbia, 18, stressed that wrapping hair or wearing a scarf is “not just religion. It’s beautiful.” She said in Ivory Coast, women do it as much as a fashion statement or as a part of their culture, not just for religious purposes.

El-Amin Naeem explains some of the religious meanings of head coverings: Orthodox Jewish women will cover their hair with a tichel or a wig after they marry; showing their real hair only to their husbands is considered a bond of intimacy. Some Muslim women traditionally cover their heads after they reach puberty. "It’s not a marker for marriage, but it is a marker — a protection, a reminder of your self that you are covering for Allah alone," says El-Amin Naeem. The New Testament also directs women to cover their heads, in 1 Corinthians 11:6: "For if a woman does not cover her head, let her also have her hair cut off; but if it is disgraceful for a woman to have her hair cut off or her head shaved, let her cover her head."

Others wrap for spiritual preferences: "There is some type of energy coming from our heads,” El-Amin Naeem says. “When people cover their heads, they are protecting it and blocking negative energy. Some people also say wrapping presses down on different chakras, so it forces you to have a mental focus.”

Filipino Janette Torrico-Woo is from the North, or Catholic, part of the country where they don’t traditionally wear head coverings, but she likes to wear her hair wrapped like the women from the Southern islands.

Rose Onwenu, from Nigeria, is Christian, and even though she must wrap her hair before prayer, she chooses to wear head coverings as a fashion statement. “When you dress up, you feel you are sophisticated and elegant, and you walk differently. You have the crown. You are the queen.”

Carlotta Whitney founded a headscarf business based on her experience with cancer. She was working as a bus driver when she underwent medical care and lost all her hair. Her employer refused to let her wear hats or colored scarves, so she designed a headscarf to look like hair. Whitney has been cancer-free for 17 years, sells her scarves in 18 states and donates scarves to women with cancer. She was so successful with the line, she quit her bus driving job.

It’s practical: Whether you’re growing your hair out or just not happy with a new haircut, “you should never have a bad hair day once you learn how to wrap,” says El-Amin Naeem. “You should always know how to go out and be fashionable.”

Fashion can flatter these cultures, but at the end of the day it's a luxury. Many people are still targeted simply for adhering to cultural traditions, style aside. Across the U.S., where freedom of religion is a sacred foundation of the nation, women have been fired or not hired because they choose to wear a hijab, a traditional covering worn by some Muslim women that shows the face. After 9/11, Sikhs were victims of hate crimes because of their head coverings, which they wear for religious purposes unrelated to terrorism. In February, an entire Arab family was attacked while grocery shopping, accused of being a part of ISIS and told to "take the rag off your head."

We’re all members of a worldwide human culture, regardless of where we live or what we look like. We all enjoy and benefit from things that were not originally created in the place we currently live or by people who look exactly like us. The way to curb ignorance is through education, at events like the Headwrap Expo, where wearing a head covering is embraced rather than shunned.

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Dark Skin Tones & Skin Cancer: What You Need To Know


People who have dark skin tones often believe they’re not at risk for skin cancer, but that is a dangerous misconception, says dermatologist Maritza I. Perez, MD, a senior vice president of The Skin Cancer Foundation. Lack of knowledge and a belief that dark skin protects against skin cancer are among the barriers preventing minority, uninsured, and immigrant populations from adopting methods for skin cancer prevention.

The rate of skin cancer diagnosis is rising in minority populations. “Anyone can get skin cancer, regardless of race,” she says. While incidence of melanoma is higher in the Caucasian population, a July 2016 study in the Journal of the American Academy of Dermatology showed it is more deadly in people of color. African American patients were most likely to be diagnosed with melanoma in its later stages than any other group in the study, and they also had the worst prognosis and the lowest overall survival rate.

Most skin cancers are associated with ultraviolet (UV) radiation from the sun or from tanning beds, says Dr. Perez. Yes, darker skin produces more of the pigment called melanin that does help protect skin — but only to a certain extent. People of color can still get sunburned, and they can also develop skin cancer from UV damage.

It’s of concern that 63 percent of African American participants in a survey said they never used sunscreen. This needs to change, says Dr. Perez. “Remember, ethnicity does not define skin type. It can represent a wide range of skin tones with a wide range of risks.” To avoid premature aging and damage that can lead to skin cancer, everyone should use sunscreen every day and practice sun-safe habits, such as seeking shade and wearing protective clothing, hats and UV-blocking sunglasses.

Additionally, certain skin cancers are caused by factors other than UV — such as genetics or environmental influences — and may occur on parts of the body rarely exposed to the sun. For example, people who have dark skin are more susceptible to acral lentiginous melanoma (ALM), an especially dangerous form of melanoma that typically appears on the palms of the hands and soles of the feet. (The Jamaican singer and musician Bob Marley died of ALM when he was only 36.)

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People who have dark skin are more susceptible to acral lentiginous melanoma (ALM), like these examples above.

It’s crucial to detect skin cancer early, when it is easiest to treat and most likely to be cured. Dr. Perez says she advises people of all ethnicities to do a monthly skin self-exam and see a dermatologist annually — and sooner if any of the warning signs appear:
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People who have dark skin are more susceptible to acral lentiginous melanoma (ALM), like these examples above.

  • A bump, patch, sore or growth that bleeds, oozes, crusts, doesn’t heal or lasts longer than a month. This may indicate basal cell carcinoma.
  • An ulcer, scaly red patch, wart-like growth or sore that sometimes crusts or bleeds could be a sign of squamous cell carcinoma. This type of skin cancer can also develop in old scars or areas of previous physical trauma or inflammation.
  • New or existing moles that are asymmetrical, have an irregular border, more than one color, are larger than a pencil eraser or change in any way may indicate melanoma. Pay special attention to suspicious spots on the hands, soles of the feet or under the nails, which could signify ALM.

Click HERE to see skin cancer rates by race and ethnicity.

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The BEST Tummy Control Top Underwear You Will EVER Buy!



I have bought 4 of these over the past 5 years and I wear them with absolutely everything! They come in black, nude, white as well as other colors! I have never purchased the full back only the thongs. You will fall in love! THANK ME LATER!

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Mobella Swim - @MOBELLASWIM REVIEW


If you are a curvy woman like me you know how hard it can be to find a nice swimsuit to accentuate those curves. Likewise if you are a small breasted woman like me it just makes it twice as hard to pick out the right swimsuit. I have tried swimsuits from Victoria's Secret, Hollister, Arie, American Eagle, Walmart, Target, and a whole bunch of stores in between.

Then there came Mobella Swim! I about died after seeing these gorgeous exclusive well designed bikinis! I just knew right then and there that I had to own a FEW! I scoured through the website & instagram to find the perfect design and size for me! On October 8th 2017 I ended up ordering 2 to start out with, the Aztec Off The Shoulder Mesh Knickers 2 Piece for £60.00 and the Rouge Thong 2 Piece for £32.00. Plus shipping cost of £13.99 that brought my total to £105.99 which is roughly $150.



I pulled out my gold card and punched in those numbers as quickly as I possibly could! My transaction went through and I received an email stating mobella had received my order!

That is where the excitement ended. Of course I was ready to have my bikinis in hand the same day, but Mobella does make you aware if takes around 4 weeks for your items to be made as they do not stock product. There is also a disclaimer that during the summer months it could take longer due to high volume of orders. Mobella Swim is a UK based brand and business which I do have experience with ordering and shipping from the UK so I knew shipping may take a week or up to two. I figured 6 weeks would be ample time to receive my order.

6 weeks went by and I still had not received a shipping notification on my order. I emailed and a week later I still hadn't heard anything regarding the inquiry on my order. I wrote the instagram page, I emailed again, and again, and again.

It has now been 10 weeks since I placed my order with no sign of communication from Mobella Swim. I tried to email to cancel my order as instructed on their website. Of course no reply. Finally I opened a dispute through my paypal after 10 weeks of not receiving any shipping notification or updates on my order. I am still waiting on Mobella to reply to my paypal dispute, but judging from their lack of communication I doubt they will, which means paypal will step in and refund my money.

BUYER BEWARE! I will never recommend Mobella Swim to any consumer due to the fraudulent nature of their business practice. Sorry to say Mobella lost a quality customer, I will never shop Mobella Swim ever again.

If you have ordered from Mobella Swim, please comment and let me know about your experience!

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The Non Refundable Deposit MYTH


About a year ago I received an email with some bad news from a client. “Dear Jeff– I just wanted to let you know that Gwen and Peter have called off their engagement and will not be getting married in September. The news comes as quite a shock to us, but Gwen claims it’s for the best and we’ve always trusted her judgment. I apologize for the short notice, but we just found out less than 48 hours ago. I would like to stop by later this week and pick up a refund of our deposit…” There was a bit more after that, but it was just a blur. My attention was focused squarely on four words– “refund of our deposit.” I knew my contract clearly protected my interests with a “non-refundable deposit” clause. I couldn’t relax, though, until I pulled out the contract to make sure everything was in order. Everything was, in fact, exactly as I remembered. Under “Booking Fee, Payment Policy & Expenses,” the contract stated that “the wedding date shall be reserved through payment of one half (50%) of the wedding coverage costs.” More importantly, the “Cancellation” section was quite clear that “If Client cancels the wedding photography for any reason, Guyer Photography shall be entitled to retain the entire amount already paid and no portion shall be refunded.” I typed up a quick reply– first expressing my regrets, then referring Gwen’s mom to the relevant language of the contract. I clicked “send” and went about my day. Things got ugly quickly, and it took about a week to sort things out with the family. It was a real mess. It all boiled down to this– I was right. I knew it. Part of me even suspects that they knew it, too. Unfortunately, though, being right isn’t always enough. We eventually came to an agreement, and I learned a very valuable lesson. There is no such thing as a Non-Refundable Deposit. Let that sink in for a minute.

DEPOSITS AND RETAINERS
Did you notice that the word “deposit” does not actually appear anywhere in the contract language I quoted? There’s a very specific reason for that. In my previous life as an attorney, I dealt with contracts on a daily basis. The thing that a lot of well-intentioned people don’t realize is that it’s not just what you say in a contract, but also how you say it that can be the difference between success and dealing with Gwen’s mom. Why is “deposit” such a dirty word? It’s not, but it doesn’t always mean what you think it means. Time for a quick lesson in contract law. Payment for a service is not earned until the service is performed. Seems pretty straightforward, right? Except for when it’s not. Courts have consistently ruled that money paid to cover advance fees for the performance of a service are not actually earned until the service is performed. Simply put, the money isn’t yours’ until you actually do what you’re being paid to do. So, assuming that my contract with Gwen’s mom clearly stated that I was to provide 14 hours of wedding day coverage, as well as prints, albums, online galleries, etc., any deposit paid in anticipation of those services would not be considered earned until those services were performed. What does that mean? It means that it doesn’t matter how many times my contract says that the deposit is non-refundable, forfeit, gone, or just plain mine. My contractual intent– protecting myself– is meaningless in that situation. If we go to court, the judge is going to rule that the work detailed in the contract has not been done and that I therefore have to return the money. All of it. If the deposit or retainer, however, was paid in order to compensate me for the potential loss caused by Gwen or Peter getting cold feet and cancelling the wedding, then we find ourselves working under a whole new set of rules and assumptions. Under this new scenario, Gwen’s mom has entered into a contract which specifically takes into account my significant loss upon her cancellation. And yes– it is a game of semantics and we are splitting hairs here, but courts like contracts. Better to have a contract that makes you, rather than one that breaks you.

SO, WHAT SHOULD THE CONTRACT ACTUALLY SAY?
As I’ve already pointed out, you have to be very specific about what that advanced payment actually covers. If it is simply the first of multiple payments toward wedding photography, Gwen’s mom wins. If, on the other hand, we list all or part of it as payment against losses caused by cancellation, the money stays right where it is– in my bank account where it belongs. I realized after this fiasco that my contract was better than many I’ve seen, but that it needed some work. It fell just a little bit short of fully doing its job. My new cancellation clause reads like this: “This contract between Guyer Photography and Gwen’s Mom shall not become effective until it is signed and the initial amount due has been paid. At the time the contract takes effect, Guyer Photography shall reserve the date and time agreed upon, and not make any other reservations or accept any other clients for said date and time. For this reason, in the event that Gwen’s Mom cancels the contract for any reason, all monies paid shall be retained by Guyer Photography in order to offset its loss of business.”

CONTRACTS ARE WRITTEN BY LAWYERS FOR A REASON
I don’t recommend lawyers because of our grandiose vocabularies. Even when I was still practicing, I always tried my best to draft contracts in plain, every day, easy-to-understand English. But here, even with all of my training and experience, a crucial bit of contract language slipped right past me. The contract was iron-clad, right up until the moment it wasn’t. It’s also important to note that contract law varies somewhat from state to state, as well as country to country, so checking with someone who knows what they’re talking about in your area is a huge and important step towards getting this right.

OTHER THINGS TO KEEP IN MIND
This is not just about wedding photography. It’s about every client and every shoot. Everyone thinks they have a perfectly acceptable reason for cancelling on you at the last minute (especially models). And maybe on occasion they do. I’m not saying you take a hard line with each and every cancellation. You’re running a business and only you can decide what’s right for your business. If returning what’s already been paid is a good business decision, then by all means return it. In my situation, Gwen’s parents have a pretty high profile and know a lot of people. When I stopped to think about the damage that could be done just from them telling their friends about the cold, heartless photographer who wouldn’t return their deposit, I realized that drawing a line in the sand might protect my interests in the short term, but I want to be in business for the long term. I’m a big fan of compassion. I’ve been extremely fortunate to be on the receiving end of it more times than I probably deserve. As a human being, I want to be as understanding and accommodating as I possibly can. If I’ve sounded a bit less than compassionate here it’s for only one reason. Photography feeds my family. It keeps a roof over our heads. Thankfully, I don’t have a very high cancellation rate. Had Gwen’s mom cancelled in enough time for me to book a new client for that date, or if it had been during a month with better cash flow, I would have refunded the full amount on the spot. But with less than three weeks before the wedding, it just wasn’t feasible. In a perfect scenario, doing what’s right for the client and what’s right for our families would always be the same thing. Contracts are there for when they aren’t.

WRAP-UP

Make sure that your interests are fully and adequately protected. All it takes is one bad experience to learn that the non-refundable deposit is nothing but a mythical creature, much like unicorns, leviathans, werewolves, and Bigfoot. But not dragons. Dragons are definitely real. Trust me. I’m a lawyer.



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